Wednesday 10 June 2020

Supsliskans in lock-down. Week 10. 18-24 May

Angela 20 May 2020


Hello Everyone
I have just spoken to Margaret and she has some positive news which she would like to let you know herself. As her phone has been a bit problematic, she doesn't have an email with all our addresses, so I think by sending this one, she should be able to 'Reply All'. I have also added Pat and Janet. There may be a much easier way to do this, but it is all my brain can come up with in the heat!!
Hope everyone is keeping well and as cheerful as possible. Love, Angela
Margaret 20 May 2020
After nearly 4 months in St Luke's I am preparing to go home on Monday 1st June. It will need a bit of an adjustment but I am to have a live- in carer for the first few weeks.
The Occupational therapist is doing a wonderful job preparing the house and my aching limbs for the new life. So here,s hoping!
Cheers! Margaret
Angela 20 May 2020
Hello Margaret and Everyone
I am so pleased to hear that you are finally on your way home, even if it is for quite worrying reasons.  I did wonder about the possibility of adapting your ground floor until you are ready to   move ' upwards and onwards'.! I am sure it will involve a lot of very hard work on your part , both physically and mentally but as a number of us have already said  you are a great fighter and are made if stern stuff so I am sure you will get through brilliantly. 
Love to you and everyone. Angela
Sylvia 20 May 2020
That’s the news I’ve been hoping for! I’m sure your recovery will progress by leaps and bounds once you’re back on home turf, even if it will seem strange being confined to the ground floor. I trust you’ll be able to use your computer there and will feel much happier with communicating through that. I’ve marked June 1st in my diary and will look forward to speaking to you once you’re home. As you say “Cheers!”
Hope everyone else is well, Sylvia 
Jane 20 May 2020
Dear Margaret,
It must be wonderful to have something to look forward to! Do hope all goes well.
I had a non-grumpy day when I turned 75 ten days ago! It was annoying not to be able to celebrate with the family as originally intended. But elder son and his wife organised a hamper from the local posh farm shop, and a chocolate birthday cake from the posh baker in town, and there was a case of red wine from younger son - so we are well set up for a week or so.
Grumpiness returned when we discovered a week ago that students returned to the cottage nextdoor which had been empty since the end of last semester just before lockdown. I have every sympathy with the 1000+ students who could not get home then. But these two came from the south, London and Yorkshire, to be specific, and have been having friends round for barbecues in the garden. They apparently plan to stay until the end of the month -'to clear the cottage'.  Perhaps Our Nicola will give us permission tomorrow to meet friends, but until then David and I will sit in our garden and give the students Hard Paddington Stares.
Otherwise we potter on, David with his research on Ancestry and mine on the British Newspaper Archive for rum-running, with a daily walk round town avoiding joggers and cyclists. There is more traffic in town but still the roads are empty so the two chaps who rode past us on the pavement this morning got a polite earful from me. David pretended he was not with me and I got a volley from the cyclists!
Love to all, Jane
Janet 20 May 2020
Dear Margaret
That is wonderful news. You have probably been a lot better off cocooned at St Luke's whilst all the shut-downs have made being cared for at home more problematic than normal but no doubt you have wished more than once you could be back in your own home and once more mistress of all you survey. You will be glad of  your live-in carer though - it's bound to take time for you to make the transition back to independence. Could be months before you are fully back to strength. But you will find it wonderful just to be able to set your own agenda - from when to get up to when and what to eat or to have on TV.
Jane, many congratulations on your 75th birthday. It sounds like you were able to celebrate in some style.
Lovely to hear everyone's news. Mine is that i have so far managed to make 3 washable face masks - 2 for John and 1 for me - and they have taken me several hours each, not the 5 to 15 minutes suggested by the on-line video instructions! I plan to make us a dozen each but that is clearly going to take some time - especially as the current good weather means indoor tasks have to be put on hold whilst gardening continues. We had our first home-grown lettuce with our lunch today - we had decided a while back that we had better sow some seeds as we like to have a salad at lunch-time and there was a risk there might be a shortage later this year.
News from Switzerland is that the (nearly) 10 year old and the 14 year old are both back at school and enjoying it. They have small classes anyway so social distancing is not a big problem and each class-room has its own little washroom so the 10 year old gets to wash his hands at least 3 times in a 5 hour morning (7 am to noon). They have 3 breaks for the purpose - 2 of 5 minutes and 1 of 10 minutes. They all go home for lunch. In the 14 year old's classroom the teacher has a little "bubble" to stand in - marked out by a circle of tape - so the pupils know how far away to stand. The on-line lessons have been going really well but they are still glad to be back. The 16 year old will not be able to go back till June as 16 year-olds count as adults and so will have to have more effective social distancing but he is quite happy with the current set-up. Like-wise, my daughter's firm is actually encouraging all staff who can to continue to work from home. That way they can have more space for the lab staff and others who have to go into the offices.
Meanwhile, John and I are quite happy pottering, doing on-line quizzes with U3A, emailing, Skyping and generally spending more time keeping in touch with people than we would normally do. Sadly, two of our (somewhat distant) neighbours contracted Covid 19. The husband recovered but the wife died, so that was quite sobering. Just hope they find a way of re-starting the economy without many more people going under.
Best wishes to all, Janet.

Ian 22 May 2020

I make it ten weeks since Sue sent the message from NZ which started our exchange of emails. And I note that it is almost a month since I prepared my last round-up of the messages for Peter Miles and to put on the Supsliska blog. Peter will have quite a sheaf of letters. Here are the weekly pages I have posted today. I hope I haven't missed anything significant:


So, you can safely clear your email box, Anne. [Hotmail has annoyingly just started to prompt me by underlining phrases with comments such as "a comma between clauses is better here" or "words expressing uncertainty lessen your impact" - grumpiness is setting in south of the border]. Compiling the pages, I set out to discover the origin of the brilliant shelves of books. Who had been able to assemble a library with such a meta-story? It was not a librarian but an artist and printmaker Phil Shaw. There are various other links about him. I forwarded the image to non-Supsliskan library friends across the UK and Europe who greatly appreciated it.

I have been following everyone's lives with great interest and was especially pleased that Margaret will soon be home after almost four months of lock-down with a very positive attitude towards re-joining our arms-length world. Welcome back, Margaret. 

My silence stems from two causes: firstly that not much has changed in our daily routine and secondly that I have been much pre-occupied with matters bibliographical. The Devon History Society is launching a ten-year long project "Devon in the 1920s" and I have been extracting 1920s publications for them from the Devon bibliography. That has unearthed a local IT guru who is enthusiastically employing his time in lock-down searching for a way of getting the data onto an on-line searchable database rather than the simple listings that I employ at the moment.  Already he has contacted JISC and BNB negotiating downloads of data and taxing my very rusty knowledge of record structures and data exchange protocols. So, the Devon bibliography project that I was hoping to get shot of will be haunting me for a while yet, much to Jill's chagrin, who finds that I spend far too much time in front of the computer screen and not enough in the garden, or keeping the house clean and sanitised. I have also become involved with a cousin who is tracing my mother's side of the family. Despite my strewing red herrings across his path, he seems to have got back to the 16th century. No rum-running though, so it's rather boring.

Still, we do spend a great deal of time in the garden which looks very tidy, but too dry. We cannot emulate the lettuces and potatoes that are being harvested by others. So far, our only horticultural output is a few minuscule radishes and some onion tops left over from last year. Our bike rides to Topsham continue, this past week with a sticky chocolate cake in our rucksack, supplemented en route by sandwiches from Aldi, just beneath the motorway bridge, with which we celebrated Julie's birthday (73rd, not 75th - congratulations, Jane, I'll soon be catching up with you) at a suitably distanced lunch in her back garden. We do not wear masks when out and about [an overused expression which lessens the impact of my writing, I'm afraid], but put them on once inside shops. Jill has made a very stylish matching pair of masks from some old socks.

Also during the week Kate came round with the grandchildren (6 and 4) for a physically distanced picnic on the bottom lawn, which is probably not strictly allowed, but we did stay alert, despite the fact that the grandchildren were anxious to show us up close and personal the worms, slugs and creepy-crawlies they had unearthed beneath flagstones. Kate is very torn about their returning to school, but her life is very fraught at present, juggling home schooling with housework and telephone counselling work involving domestic abuse.  

Things do seem to be further ahead in Switzerland, Germany, New Zealand and other countries and the government advice seems to be all over the place - no limit on distances travelled for recreation on the one hand, and quarantine for those arriving in the country not yet introduced on the other. Even on Sark you seem to be following guidelines on general alertness, Howard. We are following with interest the developments with the Barclay twins and their children - it all sounds more like Ghormenghast than Mr Pye. 

Otherwise we do little of any cultural merit - no virtual art groups or opera streaming for us - but life passes agreeably enough. An Exeter archaeologist friend recently said that he hoped that lock-down lasted another six months, so that he could finally finish off a whole string of neglected projects. I try to balance that against meeting up for a coffee with friends and bus trips to the seaside or market towns in Devon. As for resuming our trips to France and beyond - dream on. 

Stay safe everyone, Ian

Sylvia 23 May 2020

Thank you, Ian, for keeping the record of our communications.  As ever, you are the one who licks us into shape!

A propos of part of your narrative, I thought, if you haven't already seen this video, it might produce a giggle.

How I envy you, Sue.  You have a sane, down to earth PM who must have given everyone so much confidence , even during the worst time.  No further comment!

Stay well, everyone. With love and best wishes, Sylvia

Anne 23 May 2020

Thanks Sylvia, that was very funny, such an infectious laugh.
What has also cheered me the last couple of days have been 2 local online concerts. Friday evening for 3 and a half hours there was a non-stop,perfectly organised concert from Ingolstadt by all kinds of local groups, soloists, orchestras, music ranging from pop, jazz, folk to classical, one after the other performing from 3 separate locations for no other reason than that they were so happy to be able to use their talents to cheer others up. Of course it was possible to make a donation as most of them haven't been earning anything for 3 months Then this evening something similar. One of the actresses from the Ingolstadt theatre, also live online with a 70 minute non-stop programme of songs accompanied by herself on a variety of instruments.

What has definitely not cheered me up have been reports of covid-19 breaking out among workers in several slaughter houses in different locations in Germany. The workers there are mostly E. Europeans living in cramped, unhygienic conditions so no way they can stick to the strict regulations as proposed by the various regional governments. If I weren't already almost 90% vegetarian this would be the last straw. I do occasionally eat meat but only if I know that it comes from animals which have been organically reared. The pictures shown on TV illustrating the reports from these establishments are revolting.

Am I also getting grumpy? I guess it does no harm to let off steam occasionally.

Take care everyone, Anne

Jane 24 May 2020

So, Val, did you see DC in Barnard Castle when he should have been self-isolating?! I may have mentioned that he was a pupil at Durham School and he was most unpleasant to me on one occasion so I am not a fan. But a friend in Durham seems to think there is too much fuss. Not my view !

Our ice cream shop re-opened yesterday so there is now a big tub of vanilla in the freezer. Otherwise little changed as Our Nicola keeps us firmly at home. A friend who had fallen off a borrowed bicycle (but was uninjured fortunately - just his pride and a torn shirt) came in for a cup of tea on Thursday and we sat in different corners of the drying green (daisies and buttercups, but none of last year's clover, so not a lawn) and it was good to catch up with his news.

David continues to try and connect all St Andrews families, past and present, and even some to my family, while I am steeped in whisky-running, with occasional forays into our garden and the one nextdoor now connected to the Preservation Trust Museum, and much neglected which means the destructive gardening I enjoy.  The wind has wreaked havoc with shrubs, roses and other plants, but hopefully it is lessening now  and we can get back to taking afternoon tea (and the occasional pre-lunch sherry) sitting in the sun.

Our cruise down the Rhone at the end of August has obviously been cancelled, and we are offered 110% credit valid until 2023. I shall fight for a refund - we have already booked a cruise to Canada in September 2021, and are not contemplating another thereafter as we could be well past such a trip! The only potential for Grumpiness on the horizon. At the moment ...

Hope everyone continues well and cheerful.. Love, Jane

Val 24 May 2020

Ha, Ha, no I didn’t! But then I haven’t left the house or garden for 9 weeks! Interesting that he was at Durham School when you were working there.

Another personal note is that this retired Chemistry teacher, Mr Lees, who allegedly saw DC in Barney taught Roger & Charlotte Chemistry at school, Victoria escaped him! He was always odd actually & apparently photographed DC’s number plate. Why on earth would DC be coming here anyway.

We are fine & enjoying lots of video calls.  We have done two one day stints of virtual babysitting too which has gone well. Victoria started as a part time teaching assistant last year never having done anything like that before as they wanted one at the girls’ primary school & has had to go in twice over the last few weeks. There have been very few children in over lockdown, so there has been a rota of staff. 

Amelie & Harriet did Joe Wicks & then Facetimed us & then did all their work on the laptop & on the Chrome Book supplied by school to all the pupils. Whilst we watch & help from the propped up iPad!! It’s great as we help them & lots of chat.  My goodness, the maths is done in all sorts of weird & wonderful ways differently from how we did it! They are 9 & 7 by the way & Daddy is in the study but on the phone from 7am till late all week & weekend. Handset on his desk which we ring if there’s an emergency.

They have work set every day in all subjects & feedback on it, this in an ordinary City of York primary school & runs contrary to what you may read in the papers about the great divide between state & independent  They are doing their best & the girls actually enjoy getting on without any disruption. It is beginning to pall a bit though & despite zoom with friends, they will be pleased to go back……hopefully! Unfortunately, the school hear nothing from many of the pupils despite phone calls. The school can only facilitate so much. Now the headmistress is having to second guess what is going to happen & to write & re write risk assessments every day as well as get the school ready for action, hopefully next Monday.

Roger says there has actually been not a huge amount of social distancing obvious in London & things are starting to reopen & he has been so busy. (He’s allowed out!!)

Kieron continues to work from home although he is going to Bristol to the MOD tomorrow for a few days (He is in the Royal Navy) The MOD introduced hot desking last year so most of them now have to work from home because of it! He’s got to spend lots of time with Charlotte & Hermione though who is now nearly walking.  Just hope we can get there to see them  soon.

Chris is working with clients remotely & I heard spoken Georgian for the first time last Friday on a conference call he had to Tbilisi!! Translators are needed!

I, like most of you have been gardening….lots!!   Gale force winds & rain the last couple of days have intervened.

It’s very interesting to hear from you all & we all seem to be behaving in a similar way! And being very good & law abiding! So pleased to hear you’re on your way home, Margaret, & hope it all goes well tomorrow.  It’ll be lovely to be home.

Sorry to have bored you all with family stuff! Keep well all of you & now Barney has had its 15 minutes of fame!

Love to all, Val

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